Practice 1: Spousal Communication
Husband and wife should talk to each other frequently about family matters including child’s health, growth and development and positive discipline.
A,B,Cs
- Talk about the importance of communication between husband and wife, and stable family environment.
- Ask the mother how often she talks to her husband.
- Listen attentively.
- Appreciate if the husband is supportive in child care and if they talk to each other.
- If not, discuss and try to know the reason.
- For example, if husband does not have time, or if woman feels shy talking to him about sensitive matters, suggest solutions for effective communication.
- Talk to the couple, if both are available.
- If not, explain to the mother about the importance of talking to her husband/family about her and the child’s needs, for better development.
- For example, talking to the husband about how the father plays an equal role in child’s upbringing, and the child needs the love and attention of both parents.
Key Messages
- Husband and wife should talk to each other about:
- mother and child’s health,
- child’s growth development,
- positive discipline,
- and response to the child’s needs.
- The father should take an active role in taking care, feeding and playing with the child- indoors and outdoors.
- Provide the children a stable family to develop a sense of belonging for better growth.